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“80后”婚恋：男人恐婚，女人逼

发布者：阿信 2011-10-30 11:07 复制

“80后”婚恋：
男人恐婚　女人逼婚？

稿件来源：石家庄新闻网

　　在婚姻的起跑线前，谁先迈出第一步？（资料图片）

　　房子、车子、票子，养老费、奶粉钱，物质生活的飞速提升，压得即将进入而立之年的众多“80后”喘息不已。越来越多的剩男剩女们告诉我们一个真切的事实：早已到结婚年龄的“80后”，却在闪躲婚姻，这其中，男性更甚。

　　苏小姐和男友的恋情已经走过十个年头，从大学初识的心惊肉跳到现在的相濡以沫，对方早已是自己生活中的重要部分，但是，男友却迟迟不求婚。苏小姐说：“男友非常大男子主义，他一直承诺给我无忧无虑的生活，但是随着四位老人年龄的增长、生活压力的加大，男友想实现的‘经济梦’压力也越来越大。以前我也想和他一起打拼，等到经济更好一点时再结婚，但是时间飞逝，我现在已经30岁了，不想再等下去了，我必须采取措施了。”

　　早在2008年，中国社科院和社科文献出版社联合发布的《2008年中国社会形势分析与预测》报告中就曾指出，中国登记结婚人数在持续减少，初婚年龄显著推迟，近半数的“80后”承认自己恐婚。而今，“80后”已逐步走进而立之年，如果说男人的30岁还正当好时光，可30岁的数字却让女人们惶恐不已。

　　刘小姐说，刚走出大学校门的场景还历历在目，转眼自己也“奔三”了。无论是网上还是工作生活中，“90后”的字眼到处都是，现在自己已经是“剩下的”，为了不“烂”在手里，必须主动出击，向相恋两年的男友求婚。

　　笔者走访中发现，男友迟迟不求婚，无房或沉重的房贷是祸因，再加上“80后”独生子女比较多，由于家庭的宠爱，心理成熟度较之其他年龄层次的人要晚熟，同时因为生活压力、工作压力产生的种种焦虑，使他们对婚姻产生恐惧心理。

　　如果年轻还可以等待几年，但是现在已“等不起”，一些女性不得不主动提出结婚甚至逼婚。事实证明，主动求婚的女性多会成功。对此，有专家表示，大多“80后”男人苦于给不了对方一个爱的巢穴，羞于开口求婚，但他们不是真正排斥婚姻，而是在躲闪；如果一个女人在经济上没有过多要求，男人定会欣然与之建立家庭。

　　也有的女性面对迟迟不想结婚的男友非常困惑，她们认为，在恋爱中，男人要主动，女人要矜持，女人主动提出结婚岂不自降身价？即使能够成功，将来的幸福指数也会降低。

　　亲爱的读者朋友，不知你是否面临着同样的困惑，你怎样看待男人恐婚时代的来临？面对恐婚的男友，作为女友的你将如何应对？面对急欲进入婚姻围城的女友，还想“潇洒”几年的你又会怎么办？欢迎来稿参加讨论。来信请用电子邮件发送至：wb8629196@sina.com

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